Even though it becomes difficult to achieve the goals we set for ourselves due to the situation we are in, we must hold on tightly to our values that help us to achieve our goals. Thus, as a result of postponed goals, we will have passion, not disappointment.

The most fundamental basis of being a happy person lies in being oneself. If a person cannot behave like himself and is asked to conform to certain patterns, it is not possible to achieve happiness and inner peace. Even though it is difficult to be ourselves at some points, what do you need to do to be yourself despite all these difficulties?

When you face what you fear most in life, you can see how strong you are.

'If you want to make someone else happy, be compassionate. If you want to make yourself happy, again be compassionate.' Compassion provides the person with the strength to understand and cope with the difficulty experienced.

Every individual is different. Our differences, such as characteristic differences, cultural differences, social and economic differences, distinguish us from all other people and shape our expectations about life. Our different expectations about life make it difficult for us to understand and empathize with each other.

The main point that distinguishes us from other creatures is our drive to realize ourselves. What are the things that make you who you are? What are your goals?

Our addictions to approval, love, and perfection are the most important determinants of our emotional state.

Every person has the potential to achieve success. To do this, you must first know yourself well and set accurate and realistic goals in the areas where you are competent and think you have potential. When you start taking small and consistent steps in this direction within a plan, it can be seen that success is not far away. Know yourself, and determine your own understanding of success.

Many of us have issues in which we are perfectionists. We may be perfectionists in our social relationships, academic success, attitudes towards ourselves, or any other issue. What are the subjects on which you are a perfectionist? What are the benefits and harms of trying to be perfect? Could these attitudes be causing you to pay a heavy price?

"During my career, I made more than 9,000 unsuccessful shots, lost more than 300 games, and missed the game-winning shot 26 times. The more I tried, the more I failed, the more I failed, the more I tried. This is the secret of my success..." Michael Jordan

'There is a space between stimulus and response, and in that space lies our freedom and power to choose our response. Our development and freedom are hidden in our reaction.'

“If the only tool you have is a hammer, you start to see every problem as a nail.” Our skills in dealing with problems determine how we approach that problem. Unless we know a better way, we can do no more than treat problems like nails and hammer them away.